What REALLY Makes a Woman Sexy

What REALLY Makes a Woman Sexy

Mila Kunis was recently named 2012 Sexiest Woman Alive by Esquire Magazine. She follows in the footsteps of 8 other "Sexiest Woman" such as Rhianna, Minka Kelly and Angelina Jolie.

Esquire Magazine

So what sets Miss Kunis apart from other sexy women? It's less about the looks, and more about the personality. Derek, from Massachusetts says it from a man's point of view best: "Her sense of humor and personality are what puts her above the rest. There are a lot of beautiful women out there, but a good sense of humor and down to earth personality are just as important."

And he's right! Occasionally, you get an answer that is strictly based on looks, but it's more about personality.

So what really makes a woman sexy? Asking around I got answers like, "Confident, but not conceited", "Takes her work serious, but has fun", "Walks with her head held high, but doesn't look down on others", and "Just a great personality, that brings the best out in others" According to almost every man I have asked, it's her attitude that is most attractive.

Additionally, I have found that it doesn't matter how beautiful you are on the outside, if you are ugly on the inside it will shine through. Being hot goes a lot further with a personality to back it up.

Clearly, looks aren't everything  they're cracked up to be. Mila proves that being yourself and enjoying it, is far more important, (yes, even to men), than looking perfect all the time.

The Beauty of Being Imperfect

The Beauty of Being Imperfect

 

Picture a world where every single person was the same. Everyone looks the same, lives in identical houses, drives the same cars and makes the same amount of money. 

A world like the one above might, at the surface, seem one of less prejudice and equality. But, after the initial feeling of peace wore off, you would be in a world where there was no more beauty in people. Life would be boring, people would be boring.

What makes an individual beautiful is what makes them unique.

Their talents, their traits and characteristics. All the little things that make you..YOU. If we didn't have those things, then what would we have?

Every.Single.One of us has unique characteristics, some strengths-some weaknesses. I might be a great dancer and a horrible singer. You might be a horrible dancer, but have the voice of an angel!

Just because someone might be better than you at something, doesn't mean their better than you in general. It just means they have strength in that area, and weakness somewhere else.

Instead of putting so much pressure on trying to fit in to today's stereotypes pressed out by the magazines, newspapers, television and other medias, embrace who you are, your differences, and apply them to something positive!

When you accept and share your unique traits, people will see just how strong and confident you are about who you are, and will, in turn, see your uniqueness as a positive thing as well!